The next letter in TIME is:
INVEST!
We use a lot of phrases with time that aren’t really possible. You can’t buy more time and you can’t really find more time. We speak of making time, but that’s impossible, too.
1. You can’t save time – you only buy antibiotics online invest it
Time is more valuable than money, but it’s like money in that it can be spent and invested. It’s different from money though, because while money can be saved, time can’t. It you don’t use it, you lose it. Forever. In the early 1970s Jim Croce wrote a song that said, “If I could save time in a bottle, the first thing that I’d like to do, is to save every day ‘till eternity passes away–just to spend them with you.” Those are great lyrics, and it would be nice if we could save time, but you can’t. In fact, a few months after he wrote that song, he was tragically killed in a plane crash in Natchitoches, Louisiana at the age of 30. You can’t save time.
We have all kinds of time saving appliances like microwave ovens. Guys love to take short cuts in order to “save time.” Show me some of the time you’ve saved–where is it? You can’t save it you can only spend it and invest it. At a graduation commencement at his alma mater, Wheaton College, Billy Graham said: “Time is the capital that God has given us to invest. People are the stocks in which we are to invest our time, whether they’re blue chips or penny stocks or even junk bonds.”
The difference with money is we all have different amounts of it (perhaps because some have been wiser in spending and investing it), but we all have exactly the same amount of time. Every day, God gives each of us 86,400 seconds. It’s as if someone gave you $86,400 and told you you had to spend it all that day, and any money left over had to be surrendered.
You’d shop ‘till you dropped! You’d invest it wisely, because there is no promise of more money tomorrow.
It’s the same with time. You and I aren’t promised a fresh supply tomorrow, so we must invest it wisely while we have it. Where are you investing most of your time?
2. Where you invest your time reveals what is most important to you
There are 168 golden hours in each week. The average person will spend about 56 of those hours sleeping, about 24 of those hours in eating and personal hygiene, and about 50 of those hours working or traveling to work. That means there are only about 35 hours a week of “discretionary” time left over. That’s about 5 hours per day. Where are investing those hours? If I were to follow you around and observe you for those 5 hours, after about 10 days, I could tell you what is most important in your life.
You might not like it, or agree with it, but for some of you, surfing the Internet is most important to you.
For others of you, watching television, or reading magazines is what’s most important. How much of that discretionary time are you devoting to your Lord? How much are you devoting to your family? A study of 1,500 households at the University of Michigan found mothers working outside the home spend an average of 11 minutes a day on weekdays, and thirty minutes a day on weekends with the children (not including mealtime). Fathers spend an average of 8 minutes a day on weekdays and 14 minutes a day on weekends in different activities with their children.
Have you ever heard this excuse? Some dad or mom will say, “I don’t spend much time with my family, but the little time I do spend is ‘quality time.’” I don’t really like that phrase, because it is most often used as an excuse for not spending much time together. “Quality time” is really a misnomer, because all time has the same quality. Consider this second…was it of higher quality than the previous second…or of this second right now? It’s like talking about “quality money.”
If I offered you a hundred dollar bill, would you say, “No, it’s wrinkled.” I’d rather have that new, crisp $5 because it’s of better quality.” Hello. I prefer the phrase “fun family time” or “meaningful family time” but there is no substitute for investing a large quantity of time with your family. If they are important, you’ll indicate it by the amount of discretionary time you give them. The next letter in family TIME is:
MANAGE!
I inexpensive cialis reminded you a few weeks ago, that all the money we receive comes from God and we only manage it. The same can be true of time. God is the creator of time, and He alone controls it. Once a time management expert was teaching a seminar for executives. He placed a large, clear open-mouthed jar in front of the group. Next, he put seven or eight large rocks into the jar until it was full. “Is the jar full?” He asked. Everyone nodded. Then he took pebbles and filled up the jar with the small rocks until they reached the rim. “Is the jar full?” By now, they didn’t answer. So, he poured fine sand in. “Is the jar full?” Some nodded. He proceeded to take a pitcher of water and filled up the jar again. “What’s the lesson about time management?” he asked. Hands shot up, and everyone agreed “No matter how busy you are you can always fit more things into your schedule.” “Wrong.” he replied. “The lesson is: unless you put the big rocks in first, they never will fit in.
You must figure out what the big rocks are for you.” What are the big rocks in your life? Giving time to God? Giving time to your marriage and to your children? If you don’t put those big rocks in first, someone else will fill up your jar. Understand:
1. Every moment is a gift from God that must be managed wisely There is an entire field of study called “time management.” In almost every business in America, consultants are hired to teach busy executives how to better manage their time. When I meet with young pastors each year at our Barnabas Conference, the number one question is always, “How do you manage your time between your family and the church?” Time management is a hot topic. In his book, Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey writes: “Time management is a misleading concept. You can’t really manage time. You can’t delay it, speed it up, save it or lose it. No matter what you do time keeps moving forward at the same rate. The challenge is not to manage time, but to manage ourselves.”
The Bible uses another word. Instead of managing your time, it speaks of redeeming the time,
which is an even better idea. Paul writes: “See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools, but
as wise, redeeming the time because the days are evil.” (Ephesians 5:14- 15)
“Family T.I.M.E.” Psalm 90:1-2, et.al. • June 2, 2002 • #942 5
by David O. Dykes • Part 4 of 4 in Family: An Endangered Species? series
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The phrase “walk circumspectly,” means to be constantly looking around to make the most of
every opportunity. Emmitt Smith is a great football running back, but he’s not the biggest or the
fastest, or the strongest. What he excels at is running with his eyes open, and he is one of the best
at seeing holes as they open and then running through them. That’s the way we should live,
looking for every opportunity to invest time wisely, then darting through them. When an
opportunity passes, it can’t be reclaimed–it is gone forever. That’s what it means to redeem the
time.


